Explanation, Continued

Welcome to another installment of what Whitney and I are calling ‘collective blogging.’ To refresh everyone’s memory, we will both be writing blog entries on the same topic every week as an exercise to see how different our thought processes and memories are. Hopefully it will be good practice for an idea we have for NaNoWriMo 2009 – to write the same novel, but separately.

Today’s topic: More Explaining of Bucket List Items

Writing “bucket lists” has given Whitney and I a lot of bang for the buck with our collective blogging.  This week, we decided to pick 4 items on the other one’s list to be explained in more detail.  To see what I chose for Whitney, go here.

From my list of 75 to-do’s, Whitney was interested in these: #69 Travel to Ekaterinburg, Russia, #60 Travel to outer space, #52 Cruise all the major rivers of the world, and #44 fly a kite.

#69: Travel to Ekaterinburg, Russia.

I understand why this seems bizarre.  Have you looked on a map of Russia?  No?  Check one out here… seriously, check it out before you read further.

Ekaterinburg is pretty much in the middle of nowhere… at least, no where a tourist from the US with no familial ties to Russia would go.  So, why is this place on my bucket list?  It’s not that complicated an answer: it’s because I have a morbid fascination with what happened to the last Tsar of Russia, Nicholas II, and his family, the famous Romanovs.  Ekaterinburg is where they met their ultimate fate, and I feel like one day I’d like to see it.  I know it’s a bit strange.  But if I ever end up in Russia (which honestly isn’t likely), I would like to go to Ekaterinburg.

#60: Travel to outer space.

I think everyone knows I am a space geek.  I love astronomy.  I own a pretty fancy telescope.  I read about astronomy for fun (astronomy, not science fiction, and not astrology!).  When I was younger, one of my dreams was to be an astronaut.  Then I found out what becoming an astronaut entails and I gave up that idea. 

Then Virgin Galactic came along.  They want to let regular, ordinary, private citizens travel into outer space.  Granted, it’s for a price.  But if they really get their spaceline off the ground, going into space would no longer be impossible for us non-astronauts.  So traveling to outer space has been granted a slot on my bucket list.

#52: Cruise all the major rivers of the world.

OK, I should clarify this.  I don’t mean every major river of the world.  That would mean I have to decide which rivers are major, and how do you really decide that?  By length?  By cultural historical significance?  By volume?  I wouldn’t know where to start, and there are a lot of rivers out there.  I have 4 specific rivers in mind: the Nile, the Danube, the Yangtze, and the Amazon. 

The Nile River is 4184 miles long and winds its way through East Africa, on its south to north journey to the Mediterranean Sea.  It’s the longest river in the world.  Loads of history is hanging out along the Nile’s banks.  So it’s a major river to me.

The Danube River travels from Germany’s Black Forest to the Black Sea and is the second longest river in Europe.  It passes through Bavaria, Vienna, Budapest, and a slew of other interesting places.  I figure a cruise of the Danube is the only way I’d ever see most of these cities and towns and countries, so it makes the cut.

The Yangtze River is the longest river in China (third longest in the world), originating in the Tibetan plateau and emptying into the East China Sea at Shanghai.  There are some interesting animals in the river, like the finless porpoise, and I figure it would be a neat way to see part of China I might never venture to otherwise.

Ah… the Amazon River.  There are so many cool things about the Amazon that I can’t even list them all.  Think: biodiversity, lost cultures, rainforest.  AND it’s the second longest river in the world, and the largest by volume. 

#44: Fly a kite.

This was not a joke.  I’ve seriously never flown a kite – at least not properly.  I have this romanticized idea in my head about what it is like… wind in my hair, barefoot on a beach, pretty kite flying perfectly above.  I think it’s sad I’ve never done this – hence it’s appearance on my list.

Explanations and Such

Welcome to another installment of what Whitney and I are calling ‘collective blogging.’ To refresh everyone’s memory, we will both be writing blog entries on the same topic every week as an exercise to see how different our thought processes and memories are. Hopefully it will be good practice for an idea we have for NaNoWriMo 2009 – to write the same novel, but separately.

Today’s Topic: Explanations of Mutual Items on Our Bucket Lists

If you read my blog and Whitney’s blog last week, you know that we both posted lists of 75 things we’d each like to do before we ‘kick the bucket.’  If you read the two lists closely, you may have noticed that as good friends as we are, Whitney and I had few mutual life goals.  In keeping with the spirit of collective blogging, I will now explain my reasons for including the items that appeared on her list as well as mine.  If you go here, you will see that Whitney has done the same thing.

Item #3: Publish a book. 

For me, this was one of the most obvious goals to have in life.  I suspect that many people list being a published author as a goal when they are making lists like this, but most of them never pursue it.  Not me.  I’m pursuing it.  I have Whitney to thank for that, because she talked me into participating in NaNoWriMo 2007.  I’ve always liked to write, and from what I’ve been told over the years, I’m better than average at it.  “A writer,” was my standard answer to the question, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” from the age of 6 until the age of 15 – at which point it switched to wanting to be the first female President of the United States, which is really a whole separate blog.  Publishing a book would not only fulfill a dream I’ve had since childhood, it would also validate my participation in the craziness that is NaNoWriMo.  Besides, being able to say, “I’m a published author,” is just cool.

Item # 71: Set foot in all 50 states.

The United States is so incredibly diverse in terms of natural beauty, weather, and culture that I believe it might take a lifetime to see everything this country has to offer.  Because of that, I have had to narrow down the specific places in the U.S. that I would like to spend any length of time visiting.  However, I still want to one day say I have at the very least passed through all 50 states.  It just strikes me as something every American should do.  How can you truly appreciate international locations if you can’t appreciate domestic ones?  (For the record, so far I have been in 16 out of 50 states, plus Washington, DC and Puerto Rico.)

Item # 51: See the pyramids in Egypt.

OK, doesn’t everyone want to see the pyramids, at least in theory?  They are almost mythical (mummies, treasure), and yet they are tangible, you can see them if you really want to.  Moreover, one of the pyramids at Giza is the only member of the Seven Wonders of the Ancient World still in existence.  There is incredible history locked in the pyramids in Egypt.  And if those aren’t enough reasons for me to want to go, here is another: for a month at age 9, I was convinced that I was reincarnated from an ancient Egyptian girl.  I didn’t know which one, but I was sure of it.  Then it was explained to me that I was Catholic and not supposed to believe in reincarnation, and I decided I was probably wrong about my connection to ancient Egypt.  But it has held a special place in my heart since then, so if one day it becomes possible to travel to Egypt, I would certainly go!

Item # 45: Take an Alaskan cruise and walk on a glacier.

This is a new life goal for me.  I traditionally avoid going anywhere that is colder than the climate I live in.  Alaska definitely qualifies as a place I would never go, if using that criterion.  However, glaciers are awesome.  They shape valleys and mountains, and change landscapes.  They are beautiful, but can be dangerous. Many have been around longer than people.  So, I think it would be quite satisfying to be able to say, “Yeah, I’ve walked on a glacier.”  Alaska would be a fantastic place to accomplish this, since there are glaciers there, and because Alaska itself is pretty cool.  It represents an untouched area of the planet (in some spots), and is not likely to remain that way.  Anything that isn’t predicted to be unspoiled forever rates a trip in my book.

Item # 20, 24, 25, 27, 41, 43, 57: Travel to Italy

I had to list so many items because I want to see ALL of Italy.  There are even some places I didn’t list on my bucket list that I want to see.  For example, I would love to go to the Amalfi Coast and Capri, but I didn’t mention that before.  My reasons for wanting to see Italy are twofold.  First, I’m 1/2 Italian, and we know which towns in Italy our family came from.  It would be amazing to see those towns and know my ancestors might have walked in the same places – goosebump-inducing, really.  Second, Italy is one of those places with so much history and culture and culinary experience that I honestly can’t understand how there can be people who don’t get jacked to go there.  Lucky for me, I’m only 6 months away from making at least a small part of this goal a reality, because I am traveling to Florence, Italy and the surrounding region of Tuscany (and maybe a day trip somewhere else – who knows?!).  Sweet!

 

 

 

 

75 Things

Welcome to another installment of what Whitney and I are calling ‘collective blogging.’ To refresh everyone’s memory, we will both be writing blog entries on the same topic every Friday as a sort-of exercise to see how different our thought processes and memories are. Hopefully it will be good practice for an idea we have for NaNoWriMo 2009 – to write the same novel, but separately.

Today’s topic: My Bucket List

I have never seen the movie Bucket List, starring Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman.  I hear it’s pretty good.  It also seems to have sparked a trend in pop culture where people make lists for themselves detailing all the things they want to do before they “kick the bucket.”  There is even a website to help you develop your list: Superviva.com.  I’ve actually mentioned this website on my blog before (here), and while I am not a huge fan of the website, it makes my point – a lot of people are thinking about this.

So when Whitney suggested we take a page from a blog she follows and post our own lists as one of our collective blogs, I said sure.  So, here it is - 75 Things I Want to Do Before I Die:

Please note: If something on this list has already been accomplished, I have made it bold.  If it is in the process of being accomplished, I have made it italicized.

1. Star-gaze in the Arizona desert.
2. Drive the Pacific Coast Highway.
3. Publish a book.
4. Cruise the Mediterranean.
5. Go camping.
6. Go to New Orleans.
7. Get married.
8. See Aruba or Antigua (or both).
9. Give birth to a child without using heavy-duty pain medication.
10. Snorkel in Grand Cayman.
11. Drive across the country.
12. Dive between tectonic plates in Iceland.
13. Read every major work of classical literature.
14. Travel to Australia.
15. Be able to do yoga without the aid of  a DVD or instructor.
16. Take a wine tour of Long Island.
17. Become fluent in another language.
18. See Scandinavia.
19. Take my family to Disney World.
20. Go to Terlizzi, Italy.
21. Own a successful side business.
22. Go to Paris.
23. Participate in the CDC or some other major health agency.
24. Go to Rome.
25. Go to Venice.
26. Learn to scuba dive.
27. Go to Tuscany.
28. Have a vacation or weekend home on a beach.
29. Go to Greece.
30. Learn about art.
31. Go to London.
32. Go to the Metropolitan Museum of Art.
33. Visit the Seychelles Islands.
34. See the Statue of Liberty.
35. Go to Moorea.
36. Learn to line dance.
37. Visit Hawaii’s Big Island and see the volcanoes.
38. Run 5 miles without stopping.
39. Go to Barcelona.
40. Knit a sweater.
41. See the Italian Riviera.
42. Host a holiday for my entire family.
43. Travel to Sicily and its islands.
44. Fly a kite.
45. Take an Alaskan cruise and walk on a glacier.
46. Grow an herb garden.
47. Take a cruise or tour of Antarctica.
48. Hike below the rim of the Grand Canyon.
49. Travel to the Galapagos.
50. Buy a home.
51. See  the pyramids in Egypt.
52. Cruise all the major rivers of the world.
53. See the Aurora Borealis.
54. Go to Tahiti.
55. Get a Masters degree.
56. Look at Pluto through a telescope.
57. Go to Pompeii.
58. Work as a microbiologist in a non-academic research lab.
59. Take a picture of the Andromeda galaxy.
60. Travel to outer space.
61. Attend a World Series game (preferably one in which the Yankees are playing.)
62. Attend a Super Bowl game.
63. Go on an African safari.
64. Trace my family’s heritage as far back as possible.
65. Get a PhD.
66. See my children graduate from college.
67. Celebrate my 50th wedding anniversary.
68. Participate in finding the cure for at least one incurable disease.
69. Go to Ekaterinburg, Russia.
70. Go to Germany.
71. Set foot in all 50 states.
72. Own a real Prada bag.
73. Have a saltwater aquarium.
74. Be featured in the local paper for playing a sport.
75. Look at Ebola through a microscope.

I know these lists are supposed to contain 100 things, but I didn’t want my list to become frivolous or meaningless just so I could reach 100.  If I ever add on to my list, I will certainly post the additions!  To see Whitney’s list, go here.

Right Or Wrong

This is the first time I saw a list of this kind that wasn’t completely stupid, so I’m sharing it.

Here are 10 ways to tell if he is Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong:
(from AOL.com)

1. You absolutely know he wants you as much as you want him. If it’s right, your feelings of love are reciprocal and mutual and not one-sided.

2. He walks into a room, and you just have to smile. You can’t help it! And when you look at him, he’s smiling at you.

3. You do kind and sweet things for each other just because you want to and not because you feel you have to. Doing them makes you both feel good — and special.

4. You are very secure in the relationship. There is no need for jealousy or suspicion. This is a drama-free zone. No one plays games or secretly tests the other.

5. He likes you for who you are and doesn’t want to change you. Not only does he not make you feel bad about yourself, but also he boosts your self-esteem.

6. Life isn’t perfect. You’ve had your ups and downs, but through it all, you have remained together with the relationship unshaken.

7. He has good friends, and you like who he is when he spends time with them.

8. He does not try to have power over you. There is absolutely no violence in the relationship.

9. He doesn’t pressure you to do things you don’t want to do.

10. The religious and personal beliefs, life goals, and interests that make you different don’t push you apart.